Nowadays words have no meaning
Nowadays, words have no meaning.
We’re living through the semantic collapse of trust.
Once, a promise was a bond.
Now, it’s a placeholder. A performance.
Something people say to appear kind while already planning their exit.
“I mean it” doesn’t mean anything anymore.
It’s the illusion of care.
Words have become receipts for events that never occurred.
—
Why it hurts more now:
Too much input, not enough intimacy.
We hear too many stories, too many apologies — so none of them stick.
Words are currency. Attention is counterfeit.
People form bonds through texts and calls, but vanish when it’s time to show up.
Being emotionally expressive is easy.
Being emotionally available is not.
We learned to say “I love you” before we learned to say “I’m scared to lose you.”
Now we say things we don’t understand.
Break promises we don’t remember making.
—
The psychology:
• Functional freeze
They’re overwhelmed — not cold, just numb.
They promise what they wish they could mean.
Their mouth moves. Their heart doesn’t.
• Fragmented identity
One part of them makes the vow.
Another breaks it.
Another forgets.
Another regrets.
• Avoidant collapse
Some over-promise to feel close.
But closeness triggers panic.
So they disappear — not because they lied,
but because they’re afraid you believed them.
—
Real talk:
If someone breaks a promise, don’t just ask why they lied.
Ask: what part of them needed to say it?
Most promises today are manipulative.
They’re survival tactics dressed as love.
And in a world where words are cheap —
the rarest thing is someone who means it…
and stays.
.
.
.
گزارش کنی پیچتو میبندم 🤌
لایک و فالو یادت نره . 💅
#پست#میکس#کره#ای
#ترسناک #me
We’re living through the semantic collapse of trust.
Once, a promise was a bond.
Now, it’s a placeholder. A performance.
Something people say to appear kind while already planning their exit.
“I mean it” doesn’t mean anything anymore.
It’s the illusion of care.
Words have become receipts for events that never occurred.
—
Why it hurts more now:
Too much input, not enough intimacy.
We hear too many stories, too many apologies — so none of them stick.
Words are currency. Attention is counterfeit.
People form bonds through texts and calls, but vanish when it’s time to show up.
Being emotionally expressive is easy.
Being emotionally available is not.
We learned to say “I love you” before we learned to say “I’m scared to lose you.”
Now we say things we don’t understand.
Break promises we don’t remember making.
—
The psychology:
• Functional freeze
They’re overwhelmed — not cold, just numb.
They promise what they wish they could mean.
Their mouth moves. Their heart doesn’t.
• Fragmented identity
One part of them makes the vow.
Another breaks it.
Another forgets.
Another regrets.
• Avoidant collapse
Some over-promise to feel close.
But closeness triggers panic.
So they disappear — not because they lied,
but because they’re afraid you believed them.
—
Real talk:
If someone breaks a promise, don’t just ask why they lied.
Ask: what part of them needed to say it?
Most promises today are manipulative.
They’re survival tactics dressed as love.
And in a world where words are cheap —
the rarest thing is someone who means it…
and stays.
.
.
.
گزارش کنی پیچتو میبندم 🤌
لایک و فالو یادت نره . 💅
#پست#میکس#کره#ای
#ترسناک #me
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